Not really a tech question, but isn't weird how putting a new band together sometimes feels like dating?
I am talking with this guy about becoming the singer/guitarist in this new project and it's so weird how it mirrors dating. Every band I have ever been in has been just a bunch of friends, this time, total strangers.
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
7324 real brah.Owen wrote: Thu Mar 10, 2022 9:24 pm Not really a tech question, but isn't weird how putting a new band together sometimes feels like dating?
I am talking with this guy about becoming the singer/guitarist in this new project and it's so weird how it mirrors dating. Every band I have ever been in has been just a bunch of friends, this time, total strangers.
It's similar as fuck. you are setting your self up to putting yourself in a room with a group of people, maybe multiple times a week, where you are going to be literally working through creations from your most emotional brain. It's close quarters. You need trust and camaraderie, and hopefully reciprocation. It's the same shit you want in a long term romantic relationship. I fuck EVERYONE I play music with. You should too.
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
733oof yeah.. and with strangers it can be like being on a blind date that's going reasonably well until they casually mention growing up in Scientology or something..
I remember playing with this one guy in Rogers Park I met on CL a few times and things were going alright. After getting a little more comfortable with a few arrangements I started adding bolder fills to things. After one of those run throughs, he says to me "could you maybe not do that one fill, it sounds a little.. (said with disgust).. metal". 1. it really didn't, unless you're a total fucking baby and 2. yeah I realize we were going for a more art rock thing, but other influences and experiences accumulate over time and that's what gives us our unique voices. Let's not pretend like we came out of the womb with a copy of Trout Mask Replica..
So I never bothered with that dude again.
I remember playing with this one guy in Rogers Park I met on CL a few times and things were going alright. After getting a little more comfortable with a few arrangements I started adding bolder fills to things. After one of those run throughs, he says to me "could you maybe not do that one fill, it sounds a little.. (said with disgust).. metal". 1. it really didn't, unless you're a total fucking baby and 2. yeah I realize we were going for a more art rock thing, but other influences and experiences accumulate over time and that's what gives us our unique voices. Let's not pretend like we came out of the womb with a copy of Trout Mask Replica..
So I never bothered with that dude again.
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
734Reminded me to reply to the "I fuck EVERYONE I play music with. You should too." comment.
I might not go so far as to say the above, but at least, in my case, I think it would improve my life if "I play music with the one(s) I fuck".
I might not go so far as to say the above, but at least, in my case, I think it would improve my life if "I play music with the one(s) I fuck".
jason (he/him/his) from volo (illinois)
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
735These are my greatest fears. Even people who look good on paper and can speak the same shorthand can just not gel in the same room for whatever reason. I am just getting REALLY in my own head about the whole thing. I have been just doing everything myself for so long and exposing these songs to *gasp* strangers feels very hard when in the past it never felt that way.penningtron wrote: Fri Mar 11, 2022 9:13 am oof yeah.. and with strangers it can be like being on a blind date that's going reasonably well until they casually mention growing up in Scientology or something..
I remember playing with this one guy in Rogers Park I met on CL a few times and things were going alright. After getting a little more comfortable with a few arrangements I started adding bolder fills to things. After one of those run throughs, he says to me "could you maybe not do that one fill, it sounds a little.. (said with disgust).. metal". 1. it really didn't, unless you're a total fucking baby and 2. yeah I realize we were going for a more art rock thing, but other influences and experiences accumulate over time and that's what gives us our unique voices. Let's not pretend like we came out of the womb with a copy of Trout Mask Replica..
So I never bothered with that dude again.
guitar in - weaklungband.bandcamp.com/
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
736The healthiest thing from my point of view is to see it as a kind of bowling league or book club. If you don't want to be around the people it's a non starter. Obviously you want to feel they have some musical potential, but band activities should feel like an opportunity to spend time in a shared endeavor with great people.
Ambition can be good in measured doses but without camaraderie, nothing.
Ambition can be good in measured doses but without camaraderie, nothing.
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
737Absolutely agreed with all this here. I'm in the process of putting together a new band w/ the guitarist from my previous band and it's the first time we've ever really actively reached out to people to find additional bandmates. Really is a weird process that's like the worst parts of dating and being on someone's job interview loop.
Current Bands: High Priors | Maple Stave
Old Bands:
www.bracketsseattle.bandcamp.com
www.burnpermits.bandcamp.com
www.policeteeth.bandcamp.com
Old Bands:
www.bracketsseattle.bandcamp.com
www.burnpermits.bandcamp.com
www.policeteeth.bandcamp.com
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
738Sounds like a standard trem, and a Staytrem bridge, is the way to go.tommy wrote: Thu Mar 10, 2022 10:55 amI vote for the AVRI trem (or whatever Fender calls the US made ones these days) because it has the lock. A lot of people don't use these but I think they are great when setup correctly. It's been forever since I played a show but it saved me during a string break on more than one occasion. You break a string and the tension change on the springs throw everything else out of tune. Avoided with engaging the lock. Also, avoid the MIJ trem. It sucks because of the lighter springs and it rocks unevenly.Tom Wanderer wrote: Thu Mar 10, 2022 9:47 amI should give credit to the Mastery trem as it did vastly improve the tuning stability. I attributed a lot of that to the bridge (I could practically feel the wrapped strings dragging through the V shaped notches on the previous TOM bridge) but the trem has worked great too.penningtron wrote: Thu Mar 10, 2022 8:55 am ...avoid just any cheapo tremolo if you plan to do more than just lock it in place. The springs won't hold tuning very well...
Although after reading this article, maybe just going with fully stock parts is an option?
https://www.premierguitar.com/diy/guita ... ster-setup
"I got to tell you, if I went to a show and an opening band I never heard of lugged a Super Six on stage, I am paying attention." - Owen
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
739Just to continue my saga of putting a new band together.
So far so good. Working with a "real" singer is cool, right now we are just collaborating remotely (yay technology), but the process has been productive. We figured we will write 4 songs together, once we are happy, send them over to the rest of the band. Then proceed to bang them out and refine in the room together.
In the meantime I had another person reach out interested to join the band. They play keys and have a really good voice. I never really pictured keyboard or piano in this project, but I feel like a chump turning away what seems to be a real talented musician. On the other hand, I don't know if keys fit.
So far so good. Working with a "real" singer is cool, right now we are just collaborating remotely (yay technology), but the process has been productive. We figured we will write 4 songs together, once we are happy, send them over to the rest of the band. Then proceed to bang them out and refine in the room together.
In the meantime I had another person reach out interested to join the band. They play keys and have a really good voice. I never really pictured keyboard or piano in this project, but I feel like a chump turning away what seems to be a real talented musician. On the other hand, I don't know if keys fit.
guitar in - weaklungband.bandcamp.com/
Re: Small questions that don't fit anywhere
740We lucked out in that the first person we reached out to about drumming, while playing in another locally popular band, was totally down to play with us. Dude just slays, the stuff he comes up with when he's "just learning the song" blows my mind.Owen wrote: Wed Mar 16, 2022 3:04 pm Just to continue my saga of putting a new band together.
So far so good. Working with a "real" singer is cool, right now we are just collaborating remotely (yay technology), but the process has been productive. We figured we will write 4 songs together, once we are happy, send them over to the rest of the band. Then proceed to bang them out and refine in the room together.
In the meantime I had another person reach out interested to join the band. They play keys and have a really good voice. I never really pictured keyboard or piano in this project, but I feel like a chump turning away what seems to be a real talented musician. On the other hand, I don't know if keys fit.
Now trying to find a singer, that's been taking longer...might have someone sorted fingers crossed.
Current Bands: High Priors | Maple Stave
Old Bands:
www.bracketsseattle.bandcamp.com
www.burnpermits.bandcamp.com
www.policeteeth.bandcamp.com
Old Bands:
www.bracketsseattle.bandcamp.com
www.burnpermits.bandcamp.com
www.policeteeth.bandcamp.com