I fucking KNOW i want to choke on life behind a drum set while a woman whom i've seen naked plays the bass. I've never played with a chick, let alone made sweet, excellent love to her afterwards or beforehand.

The lady in Sonic Youth has excellent legs from what i can tell in pictures.

Edited for content: So I really just want to hear how often this shit happens, and if you have been so lucky. Let me be clear, I am not seeking advice. PLEASE DO NOT ADVISE!

you came to the ea forum for relationship advice! welcome jesus!

only you can decide what you value in a mate. for me, it's enough that she just understand my passion for music. if she couldn't carry a tune in a bucket, that's ok. i don't think i could hold down a relationship with another member of my band. business vs. pleasure... for every sonic youth, there's another quasi, white stripes, sonny and cher... they make great music, but their relationships paid the price.

shit. im going to edit the topic now that you said that. i dont want advice, if i gave that impression it must have been on purpose as a joke. a good one no less.

sometimes it is fun to play music with one's partner. sometimes one's partner gets frustrated by their relative inexperience with musicmaking and then it's no fun. sometimes it's best just to stick with the naked and keep the music stuff to yourself.

I would relate my experiences to you, my friend, if I did not have the feeling that you would transmogrify my story into coal or oil which would later be used to fuel some hideously long and furious masturbation session.

I'm sure there are websites out there which are specially designed to help you vicariously fulfill your sexual fantasies.

miseryandthesun wrote:I would relate my experiences to you, my friend, if I did not have the feeling that you would transmogrify my story into coal or oil which would later be used to fuel some hideously long and furious masturbation session.

I'm sure there are websites out there which are specially designed to help you vicariously fulfill your sexual fantasies.

christ. is it really that obvious?

I'm just trying to kill time until I get laid again

hench wrote:sometimes it is fun to play music with one's partner. sometimes one's partner gets frustrated by their relative inexperience with musicmaking and then it's no fun. sometimes it's best just to stick with the naked and keep the music stuff to yourself.

I like your music.

i read somewhere that Godard wouldn't fuck Anna Karina while they were doing a film and as silly as that sounds, i can understand why. that tension needs to be there.

being romantically involved with someone you're working with creatively can create cross purposes like you wouldn't believe.

in my experience, most people simply don't have the wherewithal to compartmentalize these two aspects of their lives, so it's usually in everyone's best interests that they remain seperate and there's not much overlap.

i think if you do it once, you get burned and some people will never want t odo it again. imagine meeting someone you fall in love with while playing music then them . they feel the same but because of a bad past experience, they won't act on it 'officially' because the reason we know each other is mutual musical repsect? fuck!!! makes me wanna burn my guitar just thinking about it.

hmmmm, i did a couple of audio/visual collaborations with a girl i used to date (i did the music, she made the films) and i certainly wouldn't recommend it. However, my ex is a complete nightmare to deal with at times...