Yeah but isn't dating a teenager at my age kind of associated with plot-loss?

tommydski wrote:Yeah but isn't dating a teenager at my age kind of associated with plot-loss?

I reckon eighteen is about as low as you can go. Nineteen is comfortable and everything after that's pretty much ok.

tommydski wrote:Yeah but isn't dating a teenager at my age kind of associated with plot-loss?

zom-zom wrote:Dude, you're 22.

How many times must it be said? Just don't get 'er pregnant.

tommydski wrote:I'm kinda peeved I never actually messed around with many teenagers.

Alberto R. Gonzales will hear of this!

From the man from whom I take all advice on romance and love.


You'd better take an older lover
You'd better take an older lover
You'd better take an older lover
You'd better take an older lover
You'd better take an older lover
You'd better take an older lover
You'll soon get tired of her!!

[...]

You'd better take an older lover
You'd better take an older lover
Or take a younger monster
But deserve better

I'm 35 and my girlfriend's about to turn 40. It's great.


I'd say that a fling with a 35-year old woman at age 25 can be great. In fact, I know it can, wink wink nudge nudge. Something more than a fling? Well, that comes down to the individuals and age may be nearly irrelevant.

Andrew L. wrote:From the man from whom I take all advice on romance and love.

Get ready for old stories
Of teenage sex
From the early sixties
Under cover
Behind office desks

Andrew L. ...my man!
(beat me to it by a hair)

My advice, yes.
And older woman who is interested in a younger man is either nuts, or knows what she wants. Hope, and look for signs, that it's the latter. It usually is.

There will be no games. She won't expect you to pay for everything. She will probably buy you gifts and do really nice stuff for you. More than likely she will do marvelous things to your tackle - things that will make you see god.

If things go well, it will be an experience you will never forget, and you will learn a lot, far beyond carnal things. All she'll expect from you in return is that you make her feel attractive and cool. If you are considering this, you probably think that already.

Don't ask me how I know this, but assuming she's not insane, I swear to you that you want to do this.

-A

Come on, C/NC? For cerial?

tommydski wrote:Yeah but isn't dating a teenager at my age kind of associated with plot-loss?

No, you've still got some time. I'm 18 and my lady is 22. Senior year one of my long time friends who was 17-18 had a piece of garbage boyfriend who was 25. That was awful, but he himself was the scum of the Earth, not his age necessarily.

When my girlfriend and I started out I was 15 and she was 19, that's a pretty big difference for a 15 year old. It was nice and similar to how "women in their 30's" aren't "girls in their 20's." And for some of you older guys, just in case it's been too long for you to remember, young high school girls are fucking crazy. Young college girls are far from matured, but a big step up and what I was looking for. For the time being it has stuck. Also kind of forced me to mature along with her on some levels which I am very glad happened.

I'd have to say that an additional thing about older women taking an interest in you is that it would make you feel better about yourself. And going back the other way for her. Isn't that a really nice thing in a relationship? People say women's sex get better with age like a good wine. I read somewhere on average a male's sexual peak is at 18 while a female's is 35-40.

Maybe it's a power thing, a maturity thing, a breath of fresh air from the usual 'i'm just a girl' bullshit girls my age put out... but when a distinguished (--in comparison to me, to which the qualifications are low--), older, attractive woman (30's-40's) knows what she wants it's incredibly hot. When that thing is you, well then it just gets ridiculous.

Not Crap.

alex maiolo wrote:My advice, yes.
And older woman who is interested in a younger man is either nuts, or knows what she wants. Hope, and look for signs, that it's the latter. It usually is.

There will be no games. She won't expect you to pay for everything. She will probably buy you gifts and do really nice stuff for you. More than likely she will do marvelous things to your tackle - things that will make you see god.

If things go well, it will be an experience you will never forget, and you will learn a lot, far beyond carnal things. All she'll expect from you in return is that you make her feel attractive and cool. If you are considering this, you probably think that already.

Don't ask me how I know this, but assuming she's not insane, I swear to you that you want to do this.

-A

This is so beautifully put Alex Maiolo, and so true, to the letter. I must send you the salut.

Salut, Alex Maiolo!

Hey, the first woman I thought was hot was Diane Keaton, when I was just 8 years old. For every ounce of "nubile" you get with young women, you get 10 times more of everything else with an older woman.
(barring the "nuts" stuff)

In addition, both of you will know when it has run it's course, and you will part amicably. In the case of a friend of mine, you won't part ways, you will defy conventions and spend the rest of your life together.

More than likely you will part ways, and start dating in your age group again, but henceforth you will look different to women in your peer group in a really great way.

-A