Heeby Jeeby wrote:pre-nups are ridiculous and an insult.

hmmm... i wonder how many divorced people would agree. probably less than half.

Eksvplot IV wrote:

Heeby Jeeby wrote:pre-nups are ridiculous and an insult.

hmmm... i wonder how many divorced people would agree. probably less than half.

instead of wishing they had a pre-nup i think most divorcees should think 'hey maybe i should have waited a wee while longer before i got married, y'know got to know the girl a bit better and made sure she wouldn't take all my shit'.

if you ask someone for a pre-nup it means you are not 100% certain of their character or your own possibly. essentially you are saying 'at the moment i love you...i think...well i'm pretty sure i do...but i do have a sneaking suspicion that sometime in the future things might go south and you're going to want half my shit and i won't want to give it to you...but i like TOTALLY still want to marry you...sign here'.

kerble wrote:there are at least three in the thread who are no longer wed.


stay strong you beautiful people.




Faiz

I'm still married. Happily so. I hate the holidays A LOT, so Mrs. bigc has been spending a lot of time making sure that I am taken care of. She is awesome.

I am married almost a year to a crazy sexy dame I'd been banging on and off for about 5 previously and I'd say it's really good stuff great about 50% of the time, just alright 25% and murderously frustrating and horrible the other 25%.
I bet marriage is a lot easier if you have a lot of money going into it. It's real rough at times when you are dead broke.

Today marks six years for me. My wife, too.

Not Crap

Marsupialized wrote:I am married almost a year to a crazy sexy dame I'd been banging on and off for about 5 previously and I'd say it's really good stuff great about 50% of the time, just alright 25% and murderously frustrating and horrible the other 25%.
I bet marriage is a lot easier if you have a lot of money going into it. It's real rough at times when you are dead broke.

Sun Aug 21, 2005 11:34 am Post subject: Reply with quote
I know this is old, but due to recent turns of events in my personal life I must give marriage a big giant floating CRAP.
Then another, heavier CRAP on top of it.
Then I wash it all down with a giant cup of CRAP flavored CRAP.
When it's all settled down I call the CRAP collector to come pick up this CRAP.
He comes in his CRAP van, loaded with other people's CRAP and throws my CRAP in the back.
With that, it's off to the CRAP-fill with this marriage CRAP.

That's a lot of crap to ignore six months later.
I have a prediction you both probably don't want to hear.

Dylan wrote:

Marsupialized wrote:I am married almost a year to a crazy sexy dame I'd been banging on and off for about 5 previously and I'd say it's really good stuff great about 50% of the time, just alright 25% and murderously frustrating and horrible the other 25%.
I bet marriage is a lot easier if you have a lot of money going into it. It's real rough at times when you are dead broke.

Sun Aug 21, 2005 11:34 am Post subject: Reply with quote
I know this is old, but due to recent turns of events in my personal life I must give marriage a big giant floating CRAP.
Then another, heavier CRAP on top of it.
Then I wash it all down with a giant cup of CRAP flavored CRAP.
When it's all settled down I call the CRAP collector to come pick up this CRAP.
He comes in his CRAP van, loaded with other people's CRAP and throws my CRAP in the back.
With that, it's off to the CRAP-fill with this marriage CRAP.

That's a lot of crap to ignore six months later.
I have a prediction you both probably don't want to hear.

what? that we'll get a divorce at some point?
most people do.
The important thing to me and her I'm sure is the fact we are having an insane amount of fun right now, if we hit a point where we hate each other? whatever, at least I'll have a lot of good memories of back when I had a really hot crazy awesome funny genius best friend/wife.
Most people just marry the first slob they are too stupid NOT to knock up and are miserable forever.
I would still give marriage a crap for regular type people in regular type situations, btw...unless one of ya needs insurance, then get married.

Marsupialized wrote:

Dylan wrote:

Marsupialized wrote:I am married almost a year to a crazy sexy dame I'd been banging on and off for about 5 previously and I'd say it's really good stuff great about 50% of the time, just alright 25% and murderously frustrating and horrible the other 25%.
I bet marriage is a lot easier if you have a lot of money going into it. It's real rough at times when you are dead broke.

Sun Aug 21, 2005 11:34 am Post subject: Reply with quote
I know this is old, but due to recent turns of events in my personal life I must give marriage a big giant floating CRAP.
Then another, heavier CRAP on top of it.
Then I wash it all down with a giant cup of CRAP flavored CRAP.
When it's all settled down I call the CRAP collector to come pick up this CRAP.
He comes in his CRAP van, loaded with other people's CRAP and throws my CRAP in the back.
With that, it's off to the CRAP-fill with this marriage CRAP.

That's a lot of crap to ignore six months later.
I have a prediction you both probably don't want to hear.

what? that we'll get a divorce at some point?
most people do.
The important thing to me and her I'm sure is the fact we are having an insane amount of fun right now, if we hit a point where we hate each other? whatever, at least I'll have a lot of good memories of back when I had a really hot crazy awesome funny genius best friend/wife.
Most people just marry the first slob they are too stupid NOT to knock up and are miserable forever.
I would still give marriage a crap for regular type people in regular type situations, btw...unless one of ya needs insurance, then get married.

What you have is a girlfriend, not a wife.

bigc wrote:

Marsupialized wrote:

Dylan wrote:

Marsupialized wrote:I am married almost a year to a crazy sexy dame I'd been banging on and off for about 5 previously and I'd say it's really good stuff great about 50% of the time, just alright 25% and murderously frustrating and horrible the other 25%.
I bet marriage is a lot easier if you have a lot of money going into it. It's real rough at times when you are dead broke.

Sun Aug 21, 2005 11:34 am Post subject: Reply with quote
I know this is old, but due to recent turns of events in my personal life I must give marriage a big giant floating CRAP.
Then another, heavier CRAP on top of it.
Then I wash it all down with a giant cup of CRAP flavored CRAP.
When it's all settled down I call the CRAP collector to come pick up this CRAP.
He comes in his CRAP van, loaded with other people's CRAP and throws my CRAP in the back.
With that, it's off to the CRAP-fill with this marriage CRAP.

That's a lot of crap to ignore six months later.
I have a prediction you both probably don't want to hear.

what? that we'll get a divorce at some point?
most people do.
The important thing to me and her I'm sure is the fact we are having an insane amount of fun right now, if we hit a point where we hate each other? whatever, at least I'll have a lot of good memories of back when I had a really hot crazy awesome funny genius best friend/wife.
Most people just marry the first slob they are too stupid NOT to knock up and are miserable forever.
I would still give marriage a crap for regular type people in regular type situations, btw...unless one of ya needs insurance, then get married.

What you have is a girlfriend, not a wife.

no, I remember pretty clearly getting married. Rings and all that.
She's even on my insurance, she can go to the doctor and dentist and even get glasses now.
All because we signed some piece of paper and recited some spooky magic spell someone made up.
Good deal I would think.

I think Marsupialized has a better attitude about his marriage that a shocking percentage of the population.