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by Bradley R Weissenberger_Archive
One of my abiding R.E.M. memories relates to a recent conversation that I had with a friend of mine.
During our conversation, my friend, an inveterate R.E.M. hater, once again detailed for me his distaste for R.E.M. As he well knows, I am wholly unconcerned as to whether he or anyone else gives a damn about that band (or any other band that I respect, for that matter).
What I found totally compelling about the conversation was the analogy that he drew between himself (i.e., a person almost totally informed by the ideals and aesthetic of punk rock) and fans of 1950s "hard rock" (e.g., Duane Eddy, Link Wray). He recognized that fans of Duane Eddy or Link Wray in those days might have later sneered at, say, Buddy Holly for allegedly appropriating and watering down their sacred sound (despite the fact that Buddy Holly is actually great and has little to do with either Duane Eddy or Link Wray).
My R.E.M. hating friend then acknowledged that he might be hopelessly predisposed to hate R.E.M. simply because of a temporal accident. That is, R.E.M. arrived on the tail end of punk's cultural ascendence and possessed, at least superficially -- and to the chagrin of entrenched punks -- some of the same elements that a casual observer might perceive as "punk" (despite the fact that they have little to do with punk). Simply put, my friend felt that he might have had no choice but to hate R.E.M. simply because of when both he and they arrived, just as Duane Eddy and Link Wray fans might have disliked Buddy Holly.
In any event, I thought that this observation was one of the most fair and insightful self-critiques that I had ever heard. I think that the willingness and ability to revisit an opinion on a band that one detests and draw this type of opinion is pretty goddamned inspiring.
So with this attitude in mind, I'm going to go listen to some records by Weezer. Who knows? There might be a good reason, albeit latent, as to why I hate Weezer that has nothing to do with their music and everything to do with fool me.