Hexpane wrote:I never said I was somehow better than a 2 cock sucking slut, I would never consider myself superiour to them.
Come off it. You have described them as 'sluts', 'whores' and 'damaged goods'
If you don't think you are somehow better than them then you must have a real low estimation of yourself.
About the 'norm' thing. The reason I said that is that you seem to me, pretty clearly, to be judging negatively what a person (or several) might choose to do consensually. Now you might be right that some have messed up pasts - as far as I can see most people do - but why that presumption?
Because you've read some interviews with porn stars?!
Is there something a girl might do in a one on one encounter that, to your mind, would make her a slut? (or to reword that end bit properly ' would make you think less of her?)
Would the same apply for a fella?
What is the healthy norm where someone wouldn't be a little bit gay or a slut? Missionary position in a long term marriage?
Hexpane wrote:Also note we are all ignoring the basic biology of men. It goes against our genetic code to willingly watch and want another man fucking our woman.
'...goes against our genetic code...'
This is bollocks - is this the genetic code that says sex is only for reproduction.
By this argument doesn't homosexuality go against 'our genetic code'? Maybe this would explain your apparent homophobia too.
Isn't using a condom 'against our genetic code'?
Or getting a straight blow job?
We are genetically predisposed (it seems) to like pleasure. We all get our pleasure in different ways. I'm of the opinion that genetic codes tell us precious little about the psychology of our sexuality. We just don't know enough about it yet.
Hexpane wrote:You guys are acting like you live in a bubble or something, or calling girls who suck 2 dicks at once a slut is so
I reckon your bubbles a little more restrictive than mine. You seem to think that if someone wants to indulge in a sexual act that you frown upon they are somehow inferior (your language betrays that even though you protest) they have some defect or were abused or whatever.
In my experience practically everyone is capable of some utterly bizarre fantasies and while it might not always be sensible to try and act your fantasies out if everyone feels comfortable and its all consensual then why should anyone have a problem with them doing so.
Human sexuality is a massively complex thing and to dumb it down to 'slut', 'gay', 'damaged goods' and things like that is saying much more about you than you are saying about any girl who might want to get off sucking two cocks at the same time.