Do you?

Yes, I plan on it
Total votes: 35 (45%)
No, I don't plan on it
Total votes: 28 (36%)
Haven't decided yet
Total votes: 14 (18%)
Total votes: 77

Do you plan on having a family?

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unsaved wrote:Here's 83 reasons why it's worth it to not breed.

Reason number 3 was banal and reason number 4 was mind-numbingly cliche, that's where I stopped.

By the logic in number 4 people should also stop: eating, sleeping, shitting, and fucking because so many other people participate in such activities.

I am undecided about a family I need to get through school and find someone who can actually tolerate me before it even becomes a consideration.
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Do you plan on having a family?

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NerblyBear wrote:Also, a question for any members currently with families of their own: Was it worth it or not? How has life changed for you as a result?


Yes, absolutely worth it, but it is obviously a shitload of work (sometimes handling literally "loads of shit.")

It has made me work on my patience a ton. I am more organized. It has added to the number of people in the world I would take a bullet for.
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unsaved wrote: However, other people have no problem asking if I have kids and then telling me (and my wife, who, as a woman gets it worse) that choosing not to have children is selfish, evil, un-American, etc.


Why don't you stop hanging around, working with and/or talking with people who are evidently treating you and your wife with such disdain? Sounds like a waste of time.

We don't have kids and have never committed publicly to trying. I've never heard anyone say anything like this to me.
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trompuss wrote:
Marsupialized wrote:Man, the other day I sat down at the computer and I see the wife was looking at pages about adopting a kid

I hope her and her second husband enjoy that kid they adopt


Maybe he will be able to make her pregnant with his sperm and they won't need to adopt!

i keed, i keed.


I know you kid but by all rights I should have gotten some chick pregnant at some point, I have not been especially careful over the years and as far as I know it's never happened.
My wife and I have never used any sort of birth control over the last 6 or so years and she's never gotten pregnant.
I'm thinking I do indeed have a sack of duds, thank god.
Rick Reuben wrote:Marsupialized reminds me of freedom

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iembalm wrote:I was a child before I had a child - bankruptcy, divorce, infidelity, etc. When I was 34 my wife and I decided to start a family (something that had not been an option with my ex-wife). My son was born with a serious birth defect, since corrected by surgery but something that will require a lifetime of vigilance.

I can understand how the prospect of children, let alone the added heartache, sacrifice and stress of a child with special needs, can be daunting. However, I can firmly state that my son has changed my life for the good in every way possible. Not even having a career that exposes me to daily death and grief (and which predated fatherhood by several years) did that.

When I was 8 years old I loved to play with my cars in the sandbox. When I was 17 I liked to drive fast and stay out all night. When I was 25 I used my credit cards like someone else was paying the bills.

I don't play in the sandbox anymore, I drive the speed limit, and live on a budget. I'm as close to retirement age now as I am to my high school graduation. I don't miss too many of the luxuries I have given up, and those I do miss don't even come close to tainting the joy my son gives me every day.

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I'm undecided naturally, since I am in my early 20s and pretty irresponsible. Not to mention, I have a pretty hard time looking that far ahead into the future as it is.

That said, the only people who I hate for having babies are the ones who do so because the Bible tells them so. I think it's safe to say that the majority of this message board will agree with me on this.
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