Hot chicks with douchebags... WTF?

It's simply a vestige of our hunter/gatherer days when women were necessarily attracted to the most aggressive men, all other factors being moot, for the sake of sheer survival and procreation of the species.
Total votes: 1 (3%)
It's a numbers game: a douchebag may have the same or lower batting average as you, but simply hits on enough women that he eventually lands a good one.
Total votes: 2 (6%)
Women think confidence is hot, and there's considerable overlap between confidence and cockiness.
Total votes: 2 (6%)
It's because "nice guys" are too needy, high-maintenance, posessive, clingy and smothering. It's worth it to be with a douchebag to not have to deal with that.
Total votes: 3 (8%)
It's not because he's a asshole; it's because you're creepy.
Total votes: 2 (6%)
There's a huge ego reward for women who can change an asshole into a really swell guy and all-around general bonhomme. (No votes)
Plenty of women themselves have all kinds of self-esteem issues or have grown up in abusive households, and aren't emotionally equipped to handle a relationship with any kind of man besides a complete asshole.
Total votes: 4 (11%)
All of the above.
Total votes: 14 (39%)
None of the above. (You are henceforth and forthwith required to offer an alternate explanation.)
Total votes: 4 (11%)
Depends.
Total votes: 4 (11%)
Total votes: 36

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Reading shit like this gets me depressed and even more fucked up about the general subject of women than usual. I swear, someday I'm just gonna join adultfriendfinder and resign myself to getting the clap...

...and, to be a total copout, it's probably a mix of all of those factors, there is no one, overriding, absolute explanation for most things.
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Kayte R. wrote:Honestly i don't see how people can date someone with totally different music taste if they're really into music or a musician.


sorry, but that's a pretty stupid thing to say. it's like saying you wouldn't date anyone with a different hair color than you, or different color eyes, or anyone who likes olives and chocolate ice cream when you hate olives and like vanilla.

do you want to date a clone of yourself? that would suck.

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the$inmusicisallmine wrote:
Kayte R. wrote:Honestly i don't see how people can date someone with totally different music taste if they're really into music or a musician.


sorry, but that's a pretty stupid thing to say. it's like saying you wouldn't date anyone with a different hair color than you, or different color eyes, or anyone who likes olives and chocolate ice cream when you hate olives and like vanilla.

do you want to date a clone of yourself? that would suck.


I am not passionate about hair color, eye color, olives, ice cream, or hardly anything else besides music. So it's not the same thing at all.

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Kayte R. wrote:
the$inmusicisallmine wrote:
Kayte R. wrote:Honestly i don't see how people can date someone with totally different music taste if they're really into music or a musician.


sorry, but that's a pretty stupid thing to say. it's like saying you wouldn't date anyone with a different hair color than you, or different color eyes, or anyone who likes olives and chocolate ice cream when you hate olives and like vanilla.

do you want to date a clone of yourself? that would suck.


I am not passionate about hair color, eye color, olives, ice cream, or hardly anything else besides music. So it's not the same thing at all.


I'm a musician and I've never really paid much attention or lent any care to what a girl I want to date listens to.

Music doesn't play a big part in my liking of a girl. As far as I'm concerned she should listen to whatever she likes. There are much more important reasons for my interest in her in the first place. If I dated some chicks I knew who were really into the music I'm into soley for that reason, I would probably have A.I.D.S.

Plus, I would rather a girl just listen to what she listens to. As long as she's not fakin' the funk.
lemur68 wrote:Why would you be where a jam band is playing in the first place?

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Kayte R. wrote:
the$inmusicisallmine wrote:
Kayte R. wrote:Honestly i don't see how people can date someone with totally different music taste if they're really into music or a musician.


sorry, but that's a pretty stupid thing to say. it's like saying you wouldn't date anyone with a different hair color than you, or different color eyes, or anyone who likes olives and chocolate ice cream when you hate olives and like vanilla.

do you want to date a clone of yourself? that would suck.


I am not passionate about hair color, eye color, olives, ice cream, or hardly anything else besides music. So it's not the same thing at all.


still pretty dumb however...

my fiancee and i were opposite ends of the spectrum in musical tastes...also in religions, i.e. she was a devout pentecostal and i'm a staunch atheist...

but we worked together like chicken and mashed potatoes...
lemur68 wrote:I've always said there are two ways to guarantee getting on the news:

1) Be found hoarding 80 animals in your home.

2) Drive through a storefront.

I'm 6/80ths the way to #1.

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