tmidgett wrote:.If you're gonna hit rock bottom, that's a great time to do it, when your body is still resilient.
Maybe not in her case. This is an old smokers disease that takes years normally.
tmidgett wrote:I have a lot of sympathy for many drug addicts and alcoholics. It's an awful fucking life, however they get into it. And crack is almost as bad as meth in terms of destroying a person.
I have sympathy as well and here is why.
Simply writing it off as a bad decision misses the point. We all have made bad decisions but what we don't have as a decision,
and this is really the important point, is how our bodies, psyche and other unkowns will react to a bad decision. I, like many of us, can do cocaine or some other form of whoopee and I won't get hooked. I know to stop when it hurts. Others do it once and some physiological or bit of brain chemistry latches on and they're just fucked. They didn't see it coming and they are fucked.
We know his isn't necessarily true of all addicts - some really do feel they have nothing to live for and simply are trying to escape something truly bad or perceived bad. Either way we know this is also not a rational choice - it's just another form of suicide and do you think suicide is indicative of a healthy person? Sometimes it's a gun or something else. Those folks usually need a good shrink.
Others really enjoy simply getting fucked up but just don't have the capacity to stop. Why can't they stop? You won't know until you wait a while and they will either grow out of it, nearly die and grow out of it, or see the above.
I'm not saying that Winehouse isn't to partially to blame for her own predicament. Throwing caution to the wind is her bad decision but getting in over your head is something that can happen to any of us. Who knows before hand that they are allergic to peanuts?
I'm a bass player - it was bad when Jaco died. Do you think he chose to have the life beaten out of him? The fucker got in way over his head.