Getting out fast as you can is just common courtesy way I see it.

Maybe some breakfast, a re-enactment of past events, then out the door.

Don't lollygag, it's a bullshit move.

I'd probably leave in the morning. I'm usually the first person up if I'm sleeping anywhere besides my own place. I'd leave a note or something.

About dates, I don't expect sex on the first date. It's great if we're really hitting it off, but even then, I'm not disappointed if sex doesn't happen. I'd give it a little time.

Kayte wrote:

Nina wrote:

Kayte wrote:

Nina wrote:That is utter bullshit.
A "smart chick" wouldn't be fucking you the first time you meet her.

WHAT????????????

I am totally baffled by this comment. Smart girls can do whatever they want, including fucking strangers. Why do you think if someone fucks around that makes them not smart?

You're right. I regretted wording it that way right after I posted it, but was too lazy to edit it.

Kayte wrote:ALSO,
Why all the hangups? Why worry if what you're doing is being slutty? That seems a little overly socially concerned. As long as everyone is being safe, sane, and consensual there is no problem; berating yourself, or others based on the puritanical mating norms of the 50's makes no fucking sense. Free love people, it already happened.

Personally, I have no hangups about sex, nor do I give a fuck what anyone else does. To imply that I based my comments on "puritanical mating norms of the 50's" is comical, my comments were a reaction to Peppers liking her but throwing her aside because she didn't fuck him right away, which I found a bit unfair and frankly, kind of sad.

Ok I get it. I just thought you and jgp were sounding uncommonly like Cosmo mag or something. Plus I'm in a ranting mood today (see other posts, i'm on a roll).

I am mortified to find out that my writing sounds like it came out of Cosmo. I have never read an issue of that magazine in my entire life.

Pay attention here kids...
Don't subject your body to chemo drugs. They destroy your brain and reduce your writing skills to those of a tawdry magazine's pseudo-sex advice columnist.
You have been warned.

I only leave when they threaten to ring the police.

Ace wrote:and this is a joke, right? Because this is complete and utter bullshit.

oh yeah, "different standards"... nevermind.

Your post is what's bullshit here. This is maybe the first personal story I've told on the EA in a least 6 months. I've told it truthfully and with all the details. Make an argument since we all have different opinions on things which is why ww post. but this...just typing Bullshit. That's well, Bullshit on your part.

alright, I said my bit here for now. I'm off to a $10 all you can drink mimosa/breakfast deal. This should do nothing but increase the amount of bullshit in my life, but hey I like drinking mimosas in the morning.

Also,

John George Peppers wrote:It just comes across as an early sign of game playing on her part. If you want to do something then do it. There are no rules, nothing terrible will happen to you if you have sex on the first date.

Nothing wrong with a little game playing. In fact, it factors right into the first date thing. You give a little, you withhold. All cool.

You didn't get any, whatever. Bummer, but whatever.

The "turn-off" here is more likely you whining about it. I mean just saying.

TRIFECTA wrote:

Nina wrote:That is utter bullshit.
A "smart chick" wouldn't be fucking you the first time you meet her.

Yeah, agreed. Unless slut means smart, in which case,most males just might think that.

This is some seriously backwards bullshit right here, huh?

John George Peppers wrote:

Ace wrote:and this is a joke, right? Because this is complete and utter bullshit.

oh yeah, "different standards"... nevermind.

Your post is what's bullshit here. This is maybe the first personal story I've told on the EA in a least 6 months. I've told it truthfully and with all the details. Make an argument since we all have different opinions on things which is why ww post. but this...just typing Bullshit. That's well, Bullshit on your part.

Right, okay, girl doesn't fuck on the first date so you know she's a control freak... and then you're so comforted to find out she is and so you pat yourself on the back and follow that rule.
I felt I could appropriately type "that's bullshit."

Listen, I'm all for posting honest stuff about yourself, but if you type something that makes you come off like a 16 year old, I'll respond like one. Of all the honest-to-god posts you make about yourself in 6 months, you choose this one?
Then again, maybe your standards entirely depend on as girl's decision to have sex with someone they've gone out with for only a few hours. Who knows? Good luck to you!

Please to not be repeating this discussion.