Aight, I won't blame you for that definition. However if we're trying to be better men and FMs, we should consider whether we want to post content that will drive away people such as the "plus-sized women" mentioned in the sex act. It's bad enough that we already have a male-dominated "Celebrity Crush" thread.
Sorry to suck the fun out, but if we can't get past 1 page of a thread without making jokes at the expense of marginalized people, then the forum should have never returned.