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by jimmy spako
Only manage to watch kids' movies these days. The little dude, 8 next March, is brave in many things but not so much when it comes to movies and books and narrative tension or intense or spooky stuff, which is fine, I haven't forced it, but it means that it's hard to read more intense fiction beyond things like the Tom Gates grade-school diary type things, Jedi Academy, etc. The Mouse and the Motorcycle was too much for him last time I tried. We read The Summer I Robbed a Bank, an awesome, funny book that deals with separation, neglect, illness, death and loss, but it was too much for him in the end and he wasn't pleased with me afterwards. Didn't help that I was tearing up a bit at the end either. Anyways, I still want to push the boundaries a bit (would be nice to be able to go to the movies with him beyond short-film programs at festivals a couple times a year) as I think that more complex stories would be good for him, and I'm happy video games have started to offer an in. He watched the Super Mario Bros. Movie this summer on a plane and loved it, was somehow not put off by the spooky or intense elements because he knows it's related to a game, and we have sinced watched it together multiple times. I looked up similar stuff and found the Sonic movies, and we have since watched the first two at home. Sometimes he hits the space bar and tells me to jump ahead if something seems like it's going to be too much, and we do. These movies are not all that bad, I have to admit I kind of liked them (and he loved them), though mostly I liked sitting side by side and watching them together. I also must admit I am excited about the new one coming out around Xmas, though we will most likely watch it later on the laptop screen at some point, the theater would still be way too intense.
So, yeah, these three video-game-related movies are alright, especially the Sonic movies. Please share others if you know good places to go from there.
I told him about my experience getting dropped off with my best bud to watch Raiders of the Lost Ark alone when I was his age with no clue what I was about to see. When he's anxious about having to watch a movie in a school context I call back to that story. "Whatever happens today, I am 100% sure that they are not taking you to Raiders of the Lost Ark, it'll be OK" and he smiles and rolls with it.