Richard wrote:Kill Her

FUCKING kill her.

ironyengine wrote:

Richard wrote:Kill Her

FUCKING kill her.

Baby Jesus, Amen.

I'm pretty sure that you "think about her a lot" because of the horrible things she did and not because you love her (it's easy to confuse the two, really). I dunno, when someone really burns you, you can't help but obsess over what they did and want to find closure somehow. But there's never any closure and you'd be better off forgetting she ever existed (I know, easier said than done). I am struggling with this shit right now. I dislike my ex a great deal, but I still fight the urge to email her and tell her what's what. Obviously, it's pointless, but I still think about it. Sometimes I'll be watching TV and someone will say, "Let's go eat" and I'll think about my ex being eaten out by her new boyfriend...it comes in waves. I am only making myself miserable by thinking this way and I fight it every day.

So my advice is to kill her, basically. It's the only way.

Joseph wrote: Sometimes I'll be watching TV and someone will say, "Let's go eat" and I'll think about my ex being eaten out by her new boyfriend...it comes in waves.

Joseph, this quote has made my day. I'm sorry it brings you pain but it won't forever. Someday, you too will look at this quote and laugh.

Promise.

Pure L wrote:

Joseph wrote: Sometimes I'll be watching TV and someone will say, "Let's go eat" and I'll think about my ex being eaten out by her new boyfriend...it comes in waves.

Joseph, this quote has made my day. I'm sorry it brings you pain but it won't forever. Someday, you too will look at this quote and laugh.

Promise.

That would be real sig quote fodder if i were a prick.

Wait, i AM a prick!

i'm a regular poster too, but i can't force myself to post this emo crap under my real screen name. and each time i'm trying to write something honest about mine or someone else's emotional situation i switch to full-on emo mode. i guess i'm upset about it cause it shows that deep inside i'm more vurneable than i like to think i am (see? i fucking told you).

as for your situation: let it go. do not contact her any way and wait untill your heart will forget. it's gonna hurt for sure, but there are good chances you will put your self in more pain by chasing her one way or another.












i'd like to have a pictire of a vagina as my avatar.

Pure L wrote:

Joseph wrote: Sometimes I'll be watching TV and someone will say, "Let's go eat" and I'll think about my ex being eaten out by her new boyfriend...it comes in waves.

Joseph, this quote has made my day. I'm sorry it brings you pain but it won't forever. Someday, you too will look at this quote and laugh.

Promise.

I'm sure you're right. It's absurd to think about this nonsense all day, but I still do.

Like the song says, "It shouldn't bother me...but it does."

She's obviously a very troubled person.

There are many reasons why a person acts the way the girl acts (or the way you describe her to act). Some of these you named already. It's very easy to look down upon a person when he or she behaves like that. I don't like it.

I think you should forget about ever having a true relationship of equals with this girl. For one, by your own admission, you are (or were) obsessed by her. This is not a good basis for building anything that's mature and lasting. And forget about the sex thing, it will only affirm her in her abnormal ways of seeking attention, communication, even.

I don't think there's a lot you can do for her, because you are obviously too emotionally involved. But maybe you can put her on the right track? Maybe you can tell her: "I care, as a friend, and I think you should find some help somewhere".

But first, take care of yourself. Take care. And I think the best thing for you is to just forget about her altogether. Time will help you with that.

This is hard to assess because we know so little of what is really going on, but there are obviously a lot of inconsiderate people around here.