Hexpane wrote:

Mark Hansen wrote:

iembalm wrote:

Its just when you look at real life people, women who suck off 2 guys at once tend to be sluts.

I don't know about you hexpane, but of the women I know, I wouldn't have the faintest idea about their past participation in that particular sexual exploit for about 95 % of them. Do you have a questionnaire you carry around, or what?

Yeah, I'm wondering, do you gravitate towards women who you feel are sluts so you can feel superior to them?

I've never really concerned myself with what someone did with someone else before I was with them. If they did share this very personal information with me, I didn't judge them and think of them as a slut, I took it to mean they felt somewhat safe confiding in me.

As long as someone in the here and now treats me with respect, I reciprocate, and treat them the same way.

I never said I was somehow better than a 2 cock sucking slut, I would never consider myself superiour to them.

But have either of you ever listened to/ read an interview w/ a pr0n girl/stripper etc... ever?

You guys are acting like you live in a bubble or something, or calling girls who suck 2 dicks at once a slut is some sort of new idea?

I just don't feel the need to judge someone, and call them a slut.

For one, I think the word slut is kind of stupid, since it is generally used to judge only female behavior, not male behavior, unless you add the descriptor word "male" in front of it.

do you really think a women being desperate and needy is any worse than a man who is desperate and needy?

Sure I've read interviews with porn stars and strippers, I've even know a few. No doubt, a lot of them suffered damage in their early life that plays out as they get older. Does that mean I think it's ok to pile on and degrade them further? I don't think so.

People can change and deal with the damage done to them, but it's harder for them to do that if you judge them and degrade them, and keep reminding them how little regard they have for themselves.

I also don't think that someone is necessarily doing themselves wrong by having those experiences.

Mark Hansen wrote:

Hexpane wrote:

Mark Hansen wrote:

iembalm wrote:

Its just when you look at real life people, women who suck off 2 guys at once tend to be sluts.

I don't know about you hexpane, but of the women I know, I wouldn't have the faintest idea about their past participation in that particular sexual exploit for about 95 % of them. Do you have a questionnaire you carry around, or what?

Yeah, I'm wondering, do you gravitate towards women who you feel are sluts so you can feel superior to them?

I've never really concerned myself with what someone did with someone else before I was with them. If they did share this very personal information with me, I didn't judge them and think of them as a slut, I took it to mean they felt somewhat safe confiding in me.

As long as someone in the here and now treats me with respect, I reciprocate, and treat them the same way.

I never said I was somehow better than a 2 cock sucking slut, I would never consider myself superiour to them.

But have either of you ever listened to/ read an interview w/ a pr0n girl/stripper etc... ever?

You guys are acting like you live in a bubble or something, or calling girls who suck 2 dicks at once a slut is some sort of new idea?

I just don't feel the need to judge someone, and call them a slut.

For one, I think the word slut is kind of stupid, since it is generally used to judge only female behavior, not male behavior, unless you add the descriptor word "male" in front of it.

do you really think a women being desperate and needy is any worse than a man who is desperate and needy?

Sure I've read interviews with porn stars and strippers, I've even know a few. No doubt, a lot of them suffered damage in their early life that plays out as they get older. Does that mean I think it's ok to pile on and degrade them further? I don't think so.

People can change and deal with the damage done to them, but it's harder for them to do that if you judge them and degrade them, and keep reminding them how little regard they have for themselves.

I also don't think that someone is necessarily doing themselves wrong by having those experiences.

Mark, I think yr kind of missing the point. Everything you say above is totally true and good for a compassionate human being to acknowledge, but Hexpane, regardless of using the term slut as a descriptor, is exercising compassion and empathy in identifying that most women who engage in excessive sexual deviance (i.e. two cocks, one mouth) tend to be victims of their past and their actions are a result of being sad sacks of human not fun loving babes.

kenoki wrote: Mark, I think yr kind of missing the point. Everything you say above is totally true and good for a compassionate human being to acknowledge, but Hexpane, regardless of using the term slut as a descriptor, is exercising compassion and empathy in identifying that most women who engage in excessive sexual deviance (i.e. two cocks, one mouth) tend to be victims of their past and their actions are a result of being sad sacks of human not fun loving babes.

Maybe I am, but I know when I hear most guys using the word slut there is nothing compassionate about it.

I've definitely had a few female friends, very good friends, who other guys may have characterized as sluts, but I knew for a fact that they were good, big-hearted people who I thought the world of.

Sadly, I have certainly know a few women who have been victims of their past. Including some of the women I previously mention.

It just pisses me off what people can do to each other.

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As long as someone in the here and now treats me with respect, I reciprocate, and treat them the same way.[/quote]

ah, i just knew this thread would have come to the classic "grand statements that no one ever really lives up to" part at some point.

I asked my wife and her friend and a few female co-workers and they all resoundingly would prefer the MMF combo. As far as my wife and her friend go they have never been molested, made out with a cousin, been hopped up on heroin, or otherwise. More than one has replied that they would like to be in a threesome.

johnnyemphysema wrote:I asked my wife and her friend and a few female co-workers and they all resoundingly would prefer the MMF combo. As far as my wife and her friend go they have never been molested, made out with a cousin, been hopped up on heroin, or otherwise. More than one has replied that they would like to be in a threesome.

You're all set, then.

johnnyemphysema wrote:I asked my wife and her friend and a few female co-workers and they all resoundingly would prefer the MMF combo. As far as my wife and her friend go they have never been molested, made out with a cousin, been hopped up on heroin, or otherwise. More than one has replied that they would like to be in a threesome.

curiosity (going outside yr box) and being a swinger are two different animals.

tmidgett wrote:

johnnyemphysema wrote:I asked my wife and her friend and a few female co-workers and they all resoundingly would prefer the MMF combo. As far as my wife and her friend go they have never been molested, made out with a cousin, been hopped up on heroin, or otherwise. More than one has replied that they would like to be in a threesome.

You're all set, then.

The inner-debate about whether or not it is, gay, semi-gay, bi-curious, or not rages, yes rages, on. Thanks for you encouragement though I'll scream your name if it should ever come to fruition.

Hexpane wrote:gay gay gay gay gay ur gay seeing a dick makes u gay lol

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Hexpane wrote:I never said I was somehow better than a 2 cock sucking slut, I would never consider myself superiour to them.

But have either of you ever listened to/ read an interview w/ a pr0n girl/stripper etc... ever?

I feel like gender relations loses a year of ground every time you talk about sex.