enframed wrote:i hate the holidays. i'll be stressed for the next month and a half. all this family visiting stresses me out. to be sure, i dig all the pies, but can't we come up with another reason to have pie?
I agree wholly with this post, except that I vote not crap.
I will not be with my family this year. I will be with my girlfriend, who has only one member of her family left that she'll talk to anymore, and for that reason spent last Thanksgiving alone in her office eating a can of cranberry sauce. This image is one of the most heartbreaking things I can conjure up at this time of year.
We are not doing anything exceptional for the holiday, but we are having a few friends (mostly hers, as I still don't know anyfuckingone around this area) over for dinner and comradery. We even just bought a nice new dining room table for the occasion.
It will not be the Thanksgivings of my past, where family settled around the table and all were warm and smiles. And it will be followed by the 30+ day requisite oh-fuck-it's-Christmas-time stressing. Right after Thanksgiving I'm driving back east to help my dear friend pack his belongings up and move to Austin to be with his dad, who has been given a short-sentence type of medical diagnosis. But it will be Thanksgiving, damn it all. There will be community. And there will be food. Thanks be.
Not crap, Thanksgiving. Surely you are more to us than your humble and questionable beginnings imply.
Rick Reuben wrote:You are dumber than week-old donuts.