Letting people down hurts, but they were abusing you, so fuck'em.

ChudFusk wrote: Sun Dec 22, 2024 8:07 pm

A_Man_Who_Tries wrote: Sun Dec 22, 2024 5:12 pm Done, and fucking glad of it. Cheers all.

Done what? You OK?

Yes hey - are you alright??

Hex wrote: Tue Dec 24, 2024 8:49 am...what makes someone so entitled like this? I know I’m not in the wrong and I was enforcing my own boundaries, and a friend who previously lived with them even warned me that they were kinda shitty, but why does it still hurt so fucking much?

So many people are drifting through life with zero self-awareness. This person is probably one of them, if I'm being kind. Or worse case, they know they're shitty and don't care. Sorry they came into your orbit and I hope they never come back in range. You did the right thing, now the next right thing is to protect yourself, and remind yourself that you are a good and worthwhile human being who owes nobody anything.

seby wrote: Tue Dec 24, 2024 5:42 pm

ChudFusk wrote: Sun Dec 22, 2024 8:07 pm

A_Man_Who_Tries wrote: Sun Dec 22, 2024 5:12 pm Done, and fucking glad of it. Cheers all.

Done what? You OK?

Yes hey - are you alright??

Anyone connected to H. on social media or otherwise that can reach out?

jimmy spako wrote: Fri Dec 27, 2024 3:45 am

seby wrote: Tue Dec 24, 2024 5:42 pm

ChudFusk wrote: Sun Dec 22, 2024 8:07 pm

Done what? You OK?

Yes hey - are you alright??

Anyone connected to H. on social media or otherwise that can reach out?

I didn't take his post to mean anything serious, but you guys got me worried. It seems he's off IG. I just sent him an email. Will report back.

Yeah, we are not connected on social media, but I noticed the IG was up before, until a couple days ago. Hopefully, just taking a break from the internet or this site, as has happened before. Best wishes to you, FM AMWT.

enframed wrote: Fri Dec 27, 2024 9:38 am

jimmy spako wrote: Fri Dec 27, 2024 3:45 am

seby wrote: Tue Dec 24, 2024 5:42 pm

Yes hey - are you alright??

Anyone connected to H. on social media or otherwise that can reach out?

I didn't take his post to mean anything serious, but you guys got me worried. It seems he's off IG. I just sent him an email. Will report back.

Thank you!

Having the worst fucking last several days. Resurgence of my stalker, anti-trans laws being passed in my state, a friend I had feelings for leaving their place when I and a couple other friends were over without telling anyone, to buy coke when they said they were sober from it and then OD at a bar. They were sent to the ER and are ok but I’m not doing well dealing with everything

Trans genocide is happening and barely anyone except other trans people are doing anything of substance against it. I hate this horrible fucking world so much. How the fuck do so many people handle living in it? How the fuck do you cope with living under ignorant, abusive assholes and the systems that allow them power? Me and my entire community are being targeted and so many of you are just able to go about your lives. What the fuck??? I hate this is happening, I hate there’s entire obvious fucking genocides going on and world “leaders” are spineless hypocrites. How the fuck can you stand them??? Every fucking day I have to resist killing myself, the only thing that’s keeping me going are my family and community and most of them are fucking dealing with wanting to die too because of this shit

I cope with love and sex and cannabis and music and living by my ethics and values. But I'm not being targeted by Christofascists so it's a lot easier for me.