Happyman wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 3:18 am I am 40 years old. I have never met or known who my father is.

ChudFusk wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 8:14 am

Happyman wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 3:18 am I am 40 years old. I have never met or known who my father is.

I was in essentially the same position until I was 40. My mother, who was also vague and withheld things from me, died when I was 39 and my father found her obituary and located me that way. He died last year from post-COVID symptoms, but we had 5 years to get to know each other a little. There's so much to say about it all, but the point for now is that I know how weird it feels, and I'm glad you're back and talking about it.

PASTA wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 9:30 am And we're friends

ChudFusk wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 8:14 am

Happyman wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 3:18 am I am 40 years old. I have never met or known who my father is.

I was in essentially the same position until I was 40. My mother, who was also vague and withheld things from me, died when I was 39 and my father found her obituary and located me that way. He died last year from post-COVID symptoms, but we had 5 years to get to know each other a little. There's so much to say about it all, but the point for now is that I know how weird it feels, and I'm glad you're back and talking about it.

PASTA wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 9:30 am

ChudFusk wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 8:14 am

Happyman wrote: Fri May 13, 2022 3:18 am I am 40 years old. I have never met or known who my father is.

I was in essentially the same position until I was 40. My mother, who was also vague and withheld things from me, died when I was 39 and my father found her obituary and located me that way. He died last year from post-COVID symptoms, but we had 5 years to get to know each other a little. There's so much to say about it all, but the point for now is that I know how weird it feels, and I'm glad you're back and talking about it.

MY HEART

I was an 18 year old kid, living with his meth addicted (adoptive) father, while my mom was back in England having a child with my cousin. I worked up the stones through desperation and suiciadal depression to find my bio-dad. Through some bizarre twist we were both in the right head space (and the grace and humanity of my stepmom) to slowly forge a relationship, which 29 year later is almost like anyother father/son one. And we're friends

WElcome back Clortho. Stick around

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