Andrew L. wrote:My grandmother squeezed my hand today. It's the most she can do this week. Nina, you are 93 years old. I was born on your 65th birthday and this morning I noticed we are currently sporting similar hair, kind of a mess. You outlived three husbands, each of whom you loved. You have a grade 8 education but read like a bibliophile. You believe in God and Heaven, which is nice for you. Go where your lungs won't be full of fluid, and may the best man win.
And salut Pure L (?), forum member who works in a nursing home. You people are incredible.
Thanks for the kind words, Andrew L.
My place of employment isn't a nursing home, per se. It's an Adult Family Home which is a bit different as we don't take people who are "really far gone" (my search for a better term failed me. It's Friday, my apologies). To be there, they must be ambulatory, continent, and relatively "with it" (there it is again...), etc. When they get too far out, we ship 'em off to the nursing home.
Those workers, yes, they are good people......well, most of 'em, anyway.
The lady who died at the house yesterday was the exception to the rule. To be totally honest, I didn't want her there and let that be known to the house owners. However, since we already had one open bed, they let her stay as the house can't stay afloat with 2.
This dying business though. She is for the birds. The older I get the more I realize that grief is an emotion that should be saved for those who "really matter" in one's life.
Pure L.....he is like an emotional prostitue sometimes. Pay him the moneys, and he involves himself with the grief. This paid-for-grief, she makes Pure L old and jaded.
Good news though! I am now learning of the C# and Perl programming languages. I hope the future holds less of the fleshs and bloods for Pure L. She is too sad and Pure L........he is getting tired.
This job was good when my band toured more. Not so much today.
Salut, Andrew L and Nina!! The land of fluid-less lungs must be a good place. I've seen many go there.