[T& G Afterparty Aftermath]: The Ballad Of pockets

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As many of you are aware, my younger brother went missing towards the end of the Afterparty, Friday night (Saturday morning).

(FIRST, I want to let anyone/everyone know that he is alive and just fine.)

So brother and I had been whooping it up fairly well Friday night, and by the time of the Afterparty, were quite drunken, and also I was fairly high on overload of meeting people and chatting.

My girlfriend was tired and had left early, taking the car with her to the hotel up in Niles. The idea was that brother and I would figure out a train and/or taxicab ride back to the hotel once we were ready to leave (i.e. "after the last dog dies" - if you ever had an older relative who used that expression to mean the very very tail-end of a party)

So him and I had been popping in and out of the basement on and off through the night, and weren't necessarily glued to each other's side... I might go check out a band while he smoked outside and talked to some people in the alley, or vice versa.

I didn't think much of it when I left him talking to some dudes outside while I went downstairs to check out the end of Bear Claw's set. When it was all over I could not find him. I looked outside where I had left him, I looked back inside (with the help of someone there pointing out nooks and crannies where someone might conceivably crawl into and pass out). Still no sign of him.

Now I start to freak and get worried. I spent a considerable amount of time circling around the Payless Shoes in a 2-3 block radius, half expecting to see him asleep on concrete or a lawn nearby - no such luck.

(EDIT: I also checked some within Humboldt Park, near the northeast corner - as suggested by BadComrade (see below))

I call my girlfreind to make sure he's not there at the hotel somehow - no dice.

My brother does not know his way around Chicago - I know this.
My brother does not know the address of our hotel - I know this.
My brother does not carry a goddamned cellphone - I know this.

So I am wandering around until about 4:30am, good peoples, and in the meantime decide I had better call our mother and leave her a message - because I sure as shit was not going to be the son to say on Monday or Tuesday "Oh yeah, haven't seen him since Friday night".

Next stop - calling 911 - they transfer me to 'Central Booking', like that is the common thing to do. I get a woman at 'Central Booking' on the line and she snickers and assures me that even if he had been picked up for something, they wouldn't have him in the system for at least 4 more hours, and I should call back then.

I'm freaked - at this point I can't even deal with making public transportation arrangements and I ask my girlfriend to come get me.

I think I finally laid my head to pillow in the hotel just after 5am.

About 8:30am I get a call on the cellphone:

pockets wrote:"Dude, I'm at the corner of Sheffield and Fullerton - think you can come get me?"

I'm pissed as fuck, but obviously elated that the man is alive and well. I get dressed and zip down from Niles to pick him up.

I get there and as he's approaching the car I'm deciding whether to whup his ass, or give him a big weepy hug. He says:

pockets wrote:"Well, I met a new tailor last night."

..and I look down and he has two nice little lacerations across his bluejeans, right where the front pockets would end, y'know? He turns to show me another sharp little cut on one of his back pockets.

So yeah - my brother, who does not know his way around the city one little bit, decided spontaneously to just go for a little walk
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without me (and swears he still can't remember what he was thinking to do such a thing) and with "no particular place to go", he passed out cold sitting on a train platform and got 3 of his 4 jeans pockets sliced by thugs, who miraculously only made off with a few loose dollar bils and a pre-paid phone card (his ID was in the other butt pocket that all his weight was sitting on, and he had actually had the forethought to put the bulk of his cash stuffed way down in his boot)

Originally I wanted to make him wear the sliced jeans all day Saturday, as a substitute for me not beating him to a bloody pulp that morning - but I caved, as his lack of viable pockets would mean that we'd all be stuck carrying his shit. But I do reserve the right to give him a fair amount of shit for this, as he would also give me shit if I behaved similarly. Hey we're brothers - that's just how it is.

So - I've encouraged him time and time again to register for this forum, and I'm hoping that he will, now that he's met some of you. Although I doubt it would come to pass, I really would love to see him take the name "pockets". That goes back to that thread about nicknames - you can never give yourself a nickname as good as what others will stick you with.

(So - if you saw us Saturday and we looked a little 'cashed' - please consider the amount of non-sleep that we had gotten - and yet the Almighty DIDJITS still had me jumping and flailing around like a damned idiot! An energy infusion that carried me through all into the rest of the night, rocking hard to all the rest of the rocking bands and still having a few drinks with friends after Shellac's extended magnificent set!)

Saturday night we all slept the sleep of the !@#$%-ing GODS.
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[T& G Afterparty Aftermath]: The Ballad Of pockets

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I'm still wondering who the guy rachael, ironyengine and I forced into someone's car that night was.
His supposed friends were willing to leave him passed out on the sidewalk.
I told the guy that he was either going to get his ass kicked or put that guy in his car.
He complied.
All I know is that bumble overheard someone on Saturday bitching about how this guy threatened to punch them in the face if they didn't help this guy out.
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Christopher_Dragon wrote:I'm still wondering who the guy rachael, ironyengine and I forced into someone's car that night was.
His supposed friends were willing to leave him passed out on the sidewalk.
I told the guy that he was either going to get his ass kicked or put that guy in his car.
He complied.
All I know is that bumble overheard someone on Saturday bitching about how this guy threatened to punch them in the face if they didn't help this guy out.


I swear those little pricks said his name was Doug. Thank goodness someone who knew him came to their senses and put him in a fucking car.

I would have called the police to keep him off the street............leaving someone you know passed out on a sidewalk is bogus. They were kicking at him and laughing.........he was totally a kid too.

Really - you'd think his friends would've had a little respect for the people who threw the party as well. He was passed out a few feet from the entrance to the basement. What if he'd been seriously hurt? Who would've ended up living that down?
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rachael wrote:
Christopher_Dragon wrote:I'm still wondering who the guy rachael, ironyengine and I forced into someone's car that night was.
His supposed friends were willing to leave him passed out on the sidewalk.
I told the guy that he was either going to get his ass kicked or put that guy in his car.
He complied.
All I know is that bumble overheard someone on Saturday bitching about how this guy threatened to punch them in the face if they didn't help this guy out.


I swear those little pricks said his name was Doug. Thank goodness someone who knew him came to their senses and put him in a fucking car.

I would have called the police to keep him off the street............leaving someone you know passed out on a sidewalk is bogus. They were kicking at him and laughing.........he was totally a kid too.

Really - you'd think his friends would've had a little respect for the people who threw the party as well. He was passed out a few feet from the entrance to the basement. What if he'd been seriously hurt? Who would've ended up living that down?


Maybe I can clear things up a little bit. I don't know who the "little pricks" that Rachael's referring to are, or if they were passed-out-guy's friends or what, but the guy that Chris is talking about that he threatened with punches, and the guy that bumble overheard bitching both sound like my friend Jim. Jim was bitching (sort of) not because he was made to put the POG in his car, but because the guy telling him to (Chris, apparently) didn't understand that he was already going to and didn't need the threats, and that the POG wasn't even Jim's friend anyway, but a recent acquaintance. Not that this is necessarily Chris' fault, though. Jim's not the best at verbal communication when drunk, and if you guys didn't understand his real intentions, it was just as likely (or more likely) his fault as yours. But it sounds like a big misunderstanding. I can totally vouch for Jim, not just as a friend, but as someone who knows his character - he's a kind and caring individual.

Tom may know more about this story too.
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rachael wrote:I swear those little pricks said his name was Doug. Thank goodness someone who knew him came to their senses and put him in a fucking car.


It was my only-slightly-sober impression that "Doug" was the friend of the POG, who people were trying (albeit half-heartedly) to locate.

I did also get the impression that the dude who eventually put the POG into his own car was already convinced, but the two dickfaces next to him kept making "den mother" and "good samaritan" comments to try to rile us up and the resulting ferocity ended up aimed at said dude. I tried to thank said dude, but I'm sure it came off badly. Oh well.

Arson Smith, I am pleased to hear that your brother was not the POG and was located again, none the worse for his journey.

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ironyengine wrote:Arson Smith, I am pleased to hear that your brother was not the POG and was located again, none the worse for his journey.

Y'know The funny thing is, now that I am re-hearing The Ballad Of 'POG', I do remember that while I was looking for my brother I did notice POG passed out in their car (apparently once they got POG in the car).

Anyways, it was kind of dim, and all I saw was curly hair, and I was almost relieved for a second thinking that was my brother in there.

"Oh, maybe he just crawled in a random car and passed out!", I thought.

So I asked those guys if that was him, and they were like, "No this is our friend, POG.", and I was like "Are you SURE?" and they were like "Yeah! We're pretty sure!" and I was like "Well, can I just see with my own eyes to make sure?" (in case they were Kidney Thieves, or going to potentially sell my brother into overseas White Slavery, etc.) and they were annoyed as shit (probably from the other hassle described earlier) but they reluctantly opened the car door and were like "SEE!?" and POG was like "Guhhhrhhh!?" and I was like "Shit man, that's not my bro - gotta continue the search..." and I was like bummed and had to like keep lookin' and like...

(like - then the rest of the story is like already above...)

Like, wow.

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Hey kids, I feel like I'm back in 5th period study hall. I directly heard the story from both directions and thought it was remarkable that everyone was attached to EA. (Though, it was not that odd since a bunch of EA folks went to the show.)

It seems now, as it seemed then, that everyone was trying to do the right thing in a bewildered, drunken (sometimes belligerent) sort of way. I'm glad the guy was taken care of. Shake hands, cop a feel, buy a round.

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rachael wrote:
Christopher_Dragon wrote:I'm still wondering who the guy rachael, ironyengine and I forced into someone's car that night was.
His supposed friends were willing to leave him passed out on the sidewalk.
I told the guy that he was either going to get his ass kicked or put that guy in his car.
He complied.
All I know is that bumble overheard someone on Saturday bitching about how this guy threatened to punch them in the face if they didn't help this guy out.


I swear those little pricks said his name was Doug. Thank goodness someone who knew him came to their senses and put him in a fucking car.

I would have called the police to keep him off the street............leaving someone you know passed out on a sidewalk is bogus. They were kicking at him and laughing.........he was totally a kid too.

Really - you'd think his friends would've had a little respect for the people who threw the party as well. He was passed out a few feet from the entrance to the basement. What if he'd been seriously hurt? Who would've ended up living that down?


Uhhh I wasn't there friday night but Doug, Fun Ender, and Jim are all good people. I'm pretty certain they weren't about to leave Doug there. But I will ask.
I don't understand why people were so concerned ... trust me, he's better off passed out on the sidewalk than that drunk and walking around.

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