speedie wrote: Tue May 04, 2021 5:34 am
I will miss Amanda. I will own up to the fact that I unfriended her on the other thing about 6 months before she passed, as she was getting (selfish me) unbearable.
BUT. we were chat buddies on MSN way back in the day, and she was always an engaging and worthy suck of my time.
I remember when she announced her first or second attempt at checking out of this mortal coil, calling her local police Dpt in the UK (From Australia) to get someone to check on her. Joe Lemur was also on board on that side of the world.
She was acerbic, smart as hell, and took no shit. She also had the cutest laugh around., we spoke on the phone quite a bit.
I know other FM's have a lot more history than I do, so have at it, my friends.
Salut! Mandroid 2.0!
I had not yet formed the words to say anything about this when the forum crashed. We spent years together, some good, some bad. I could never find a way to talk about it without bringing in my own shit, and that just didn't feel right at all.
Amanda embraced change and abhorred stasis. She wouldn't settle, neither physically nor ideologically. The curiosity to turn over every rock was strong in her. She wanted to create art and make music, and often did. However, it rarely seemed to meet her own standards so it was rarely shared with the world. When she was able, she would often change living locations. This sometimes involved changing her friend groups or burning the bridges that she crossed in her travels. When she was unable to explore, her mood could turn. She found herself in a situation where she regretted upending her life so many times, but also sad that she was unable to upend it again. Her life was a quest and, sadly, I don't think she ever found or maybe never truly knew what she was looking for.
The PRF was a place that saw the good in her, and I'm so grateful that we can remember that. I feel like we need to collaborate with our memories of her, because no one really had the whole picture. We don't need to figure her out, and I don't think we should try without permission. What we can do is assemble a good representation of the core of her character as she traveled through many of our lives, and remember how she added to the excitement and enthusiasm of existing in this community and this world.